Romance Scam Statistics – Common Types & How To Stay Safe

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Online dating is the most common way to meet people, which unfortunately paves the way for scams and frauds, as the latest romance scam statistics show. The devastating figures and trends are a testament to how far malicious actors will go to get rich.

When we dove into these statistics, we were stunned to see how much money millions of people lost in the last few years as a result of romance fraud.

For our romance scam statistics investigation, we went through several law enforcement reports by authorities worldwide, as well as guides and reports by private companies, and news stories from around the world. We dive into romance fraud statistics by region, types of romance scams, and explore how you can avoid falling victim to this devastating type of fraud.

Key Romance Scam Statistics

Romance Scam Statistics by Region

Bad actors like The Tinder Swindler are praying on the vulnerable in every part of the world, and romance fraud is no exception. While many romance scams originate in Africa, such as Nigeria and Ghana, there are plenty of them in other countries as well.

In this section, we study romance scam statistics in different parts of the world, including the most common types of dating fraud and the financial side of the crimes.

USA & Canada

The number of reported romance scams in the US has been on the rise since 2017. In 2022, the figure reached 73,000 reported cases, which is more than double the number of reports filed in 2020.

The cumulative amount of reported financial losses resulting from romance scams in the US in 2022 was $1.3 billion, with the median amount being $4,400. These staggering figures demonstrate that financial losses from scams more than doubled since 2021, when consumers lost a total of $547 million to romance scammers in the US.

In terms of reported romance scams by US state, California saw the largest number in 2022 – 9,133, to be precise. Texas and Florida come second and third, with 5,642 and 5,472 cases, respectively. And, as you can see from our infographic, California was also the state with the biggest financial losses from romance scams in 2022, amounting to $193.7 million.

Florida victims bore losses of $85.02 million and Texas was at $80.65 million, according to Statista. Social Catfish stipulates that the average losses per victims in these states were as follows:

US vs Canada in Romance Statistics

A 2022 study by Social Catfish confirms these three states to be the states with the most romance scams. Vermont had the least amount of reported cases (28), with the fewest losses ($373,468). However, the New England state is in the minority, as it’s one of the only three states (including Wyoming and South Dakota) where romance scam losses were below $1 million in 2022.

The FBI reports from 2021 and 2022 also present a grim picture: the Internet Crimes Complaints Center received reports from almost 25,000 romance scam victims who lost over $950 million. In 2022, the number of victims was 19,021, and they collectively lost over $735 million to romance scams.

For Canada, the statistics are no less devastating. In 2021, romance scams were the second-most prolific scams in Canada, with Canadians losing over $41 million to them. In 2022, the number of romance scams went up 40%, according to the Canadian Anti-Fraud Center, and the victims lost over $59 million. The figures for 2023, released recently, suggest that the losses in 2023 amounted to $41 million.

Demographics

Who is the typical victim of a romance scam?

Short answer – it can happen to anybody, regardless of age, gender, and sexual orientation. While it’s true that a significant proportion of victims of romance fraud (32%) are in their 50s and 60s, as you can see from the IC3 pie chart above, they’re far from the only ones.

In fact, FTC reports that the most common victims of sextortion in romance scams are aged 18-29, and they’re six times more likely to report the crime than people over 30.

As for gender, many reports stipulate that both men and women can become victims of romance scams. Statista tells us that, in 2022, there were more male (59%) than female (44%) dating app users in the US that believed they were victims of romance fraud.

UK

Romance scammers are also rampant in the UK. In 2021, there were almost 8,000 romance scams reported to Action Fraud. Also, 38% of Brits reported that someone they met online had asked them for money.

What’s more shocking, however, is that 57% of the Brits who were asked for money online sent it, proving how conniving romance scammers can be. These scams resulted in British people losing over £15 million to the fraudsters in the first six months of 2021 alone.

Figures from the UK watchdog Action Fraud are even more devastating: according to them, 2021 saw losses of £95.1 million to romance scams alone.

In 2022, romance scams made up 29% of all scams carried out in the UK, and the number of romance scams grew 30% compared to the year before. Some banks, like TSB and Lloyds, conducted studies of average losses of romance scams in 2022:

Demographics

Banks’ studies of romance scams in 2023 paint a similar picture. For example, research by Santander tells us that 31% of British people fell victim to a romance scam in 2023. And according to Lloyds, romance scams increased by 22% in 2023, compared to 2022.

Nationwide provides an even more staggering increase of 40% – although this figure specifically relates towards romance scams where the men are the victims. Indeed, British men reported more romance scams (52%) than women in 2023, according to Lloyds. However, women reported higher average losses of £9,083, compared to men’s lower average loss of £5,145.

In terms of age, an Action Fraud report from 2021 stipulates that victims aged 50-59 made up 20% of all romance fraud victims in the UK. People aged 40-49 and 30-39 made up 18% and 17% of victims, respectively.

However, the founders of LoveSaid fraud center said that the youngest romance scam victim they worked with was 16 and the oldest over 80, further proving that all age groups are at risk of romance fraud.

APAC

The Asia-Pacific (APAC) region isn’t immune to romance scams either. For example, 2022 saw Australians report almost 3,700 instances of romance fraud to Scamwatch, with total losses of $40.6 million. A lion’s share of these losses ($13 million) was suffered by victims aged 65 and over.

As you can see from the infographic above, other countries are also suffering from romance scams. For instance, Singaporeans reported 868 cases of romance fraud in 2022, and in 2021, that figure exceeded 1,000.

In Hong Kong, law enforcement received 769 complaints in the first half of 2023, and they amounted to $52 million in losses. Many of these reports related to crypto romance scams (more on that later).

Dating App Romance Scams

In 2023, there were 381.48 million dating services users in the world, and that figure is expected to reach 452.47 million by 2028. With such a huge pool of potential markets, it’s unfortunately no surprise that romance scammers are making millions of dollars.

Studies tell us that 1 in 10 dating profiles is completely fake, and male profiles have a 21% higher chance to be fake than female ones. A lot of these fake profiles are often made with a nefarious purpose of fraud and extortion. 19% of romance scams in the US started on a dating website or an app in 2022, according to the FTC.

However, as we’ll see in the below section, scammers prefer social media to dating apps. That’s because dating services are increasingly introducing verification measures and fraud prevention measures to protect their users.

Social Media Romance Scams

According to the FTC, social media, rather than dating apps, is the most popular medium to perpetrate romance scams – 40% of victims were pursued via social networks in 2022. And in the UK, over 33% of all romance scams started on Facebook during the COVID-19 pandemic.

A 2021 study by Social Catfish confirms the popularity of Facebook for romance scams. Since many Facebook users today are aged 50 and above, it’s no surprise they’re one of the biggest target groups for romance fraudsters.

Many scammers also preferred Google Hangouts (Google Chat today), WhatApp, and Telegram, and often asked people they met on dating apps to move the conversation there.

Instagram is another perilous app in terms of romance fraud. Often, scammers steal photos of attractive people and love-bomb their potential victim with compliments. They commonly claim to be deployed overseas or be an oil rig worker and make excuses not to video chat or meet in person.

58% of American victims of romance scams that turned into sextortion named Instagram and Snapchat as the top offenders.

Crypto Romance Scams

Cryptocurrency is the second-most common form of payment demanded by romance scammers, after gift cards, and 19% of all romance scam losses in 2022 were in cryptocurrency. It’s also a common subject of romance scams.

Originally invented in China and known as “pig butchering,” the cryptocurrency romance scam involves building a relationship with a victim before convincing them to get involved in crypto trading. As they invest more and more into a bogus crypto platform, they encounter issues withdrawing the money, and fraudsters disappear by that point, along with the cash invested.

According to the FTC, cryptocurrency schemes were the most lucrative type of romance scams in 2021. With the median loss of $10,000 per consumer, the victims lost $139 million in crypto romance scams that year in total. That accounts for 25.4% of all the money lost to romance scams that year in the US alone.

12% of Americans who used dating apps have been exposed to pig butchering, according to Aura.

These staggering figures are a testament to the damage crypto romance scams can do. As recently as November 2023, the US Department of Justice seized nearly $9 million in Tether cryptocurrency tied to nearly 70 victims of the pig butchering scam perpetrated by an international network of criminals.

Some of the other prolific crypto romance scams are:

Military Romance Scams

Another common type of a romance scam is a military romance scam, where fraudsters pose as servicemen and emotionally manipulate their victim to extort money. Lying about being in the military was the third-most popular lie told by romance scammers in 2022.

Many romance scams a few years ago tended to feature one prominent figure from the US military who has no social media presence. And yet, photographs of the four-star general Stephen J. Townsend have been used to attempt to coerce people to give them money – either on Facebook or Tinder.

The scam got so prolific that the US army had to issue an imposter alert:

***IMPOSTER ALERT*** Gen Stephen J. Townsend, TRADOC CG, is NOT on Facebook, Twitter, Skype, Instagram, Google Hang Out, dating sites, chat rooms, etc. Below are examples of impostor accounts, these impostors attempt to harass & scam individuals. If you find one, report them! pic.twitter.com/PsPsAtfSVW

— U.S. Army TRADOC (@TRADOC) August 14, 2018

Of course, Townsend-related scams are far from the only ones. US military gets hundreds of romance scam alerts per month, and America is not the only country where they’re happening. Some of the most harrowing examples are below:

How To Avoid Falling Victim to a Romance Scam

These sobering statistics reveal the hard truth that anyone can fall victim to a romance scam, as the perpetrators are extremely smart and cunning. We at TechReport are conscious of that, which is why we put together this guide to how you can avoid falling for romance fraudsters.

Look Out For These Red Flags

A romance fraudster will likely try to build a relationship with you by sending you lots of compliments and moving very fast, even admitting they’re in love after only a few interactions. This is known as “lovebombing” and is a common tactic of abusers and scammers.

Another red flag, especially on dating apps, is them asking to move to other apps like Google Chat or Telegram very quickly – usually because “they hate using dating apps”. Scammers know that dating apps have increasingly strict verification and reporting tools, and using encrypted messaging apps is a way to bypass them.

Following that, scammers often refuse to use video chats or meet in person. Usually, that’s because they spoofed someone else’s attractive photos to get your attention. If that’s the case, run their photos through a reverse image search to see if they are who they say they are.

A big red flag is when fraudsters start asking for things like money. By providing an elaborate scenario, like the ones listed below, they try to convince you to send them money. Common requests include gift cards (24%), cryptocurrency (19%), payment apps (15%) and bank transfers (14%).

Watch Out for These Common Lies

The FTC put together a list of the most common lies told by romance fraudsters. The most common one, told by 24% of scammers is “I’m sick or I’m in jail or someone close to me is.” The military or oil rig lies are also very common, told by 18% and 6% of scammers, respectively.

Other common lies are:

Never Send Money to Strangers

Exclusive: A romance fraudster posing as Hollywood star Nicolas Cage conned a woman out of thousands of pounds – as reports of online dating scams soar during the pandemic https://t.co/3HY0ani6ml

— David Mercer (@DavidMercerSky) January 20, 2022

Treat it as a golden rule: never send money to people you’ve met online and never met in person. Often, scammers ask for anonymous payment methods, making it harder for you to recover. So, if someone you met online asks you for money, treat it as a scam.

Don’t Be Fooled by the Promises of Crypto

Dating is no place for investments. If someone on a dating app or social media offers you an investment opportunity or asks you to download some app, treat it as a red flag. Cryptocurrency investments are not a get-rich-quick scheme and require expertise and due diligence if you want to benefit from them properly.

Our Concluding Thoughts

When we dove into the law enforcement reports on romance scams, we were shocked to see the devastating statistics and figures. The horrific stories of people who went through romance scams made it very clear to us that such things can happen to anyone, however savvy you consider yourself to be.

For that reason, we’ve done our best to put together a comprehensive guide to romance scam statistics around the world and the most common types of romance fraud, from social media and dating apps to military romance fraud and pig butchering. We also created a guide to how you can avoid becoming a victim of a romance scam.

It’s our hope that this horrible thing will never happen to you. But if you believe that you’re experiencing romance fraud, remember that this isn’t your fault, and report it to the authorities, such as IC3 and Action Fraud.

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